Thursday, November 15, 2007 - 11:02am
Hailey made it through her latest round of chemo with no apparent complications. She did not get sick and her mood did not seem to be greatly affected. So now we are off for a week or two, and then we have another MRI. Once we get the results of this MRI, we are going to send all of Hailey's information to a doctor out in Washington D.C. If there is an expert in this field, he is definitely one of them. We want to get his opinion on the course of treatment taken so far, and most importantly, whether we should be considering (and would qualify for) any other promising treatments because of her inability to gain weight. Stay tuned for updates on what the next few weeks bring for us. We are turning it up a notch over here in our quest to determine whether there is another form of treatment to consider to shrink this tumor a little bit and get some weight on her!
We also wanted to mention that if any of you were considering ordering from our store for yourselves or for the holidays, please order within the current ordering period (end date given in the store section of the site). This should allow you to receive your items prior to christmas. And as a reminder, the shirts (both Men and Women) do tend to run a little small and shrink a little when washing and drying them, so you may want to consider that when choosing sizes. Thanks to all of you who have ordered items from the store already. Please be sure to tell people the story behind them when asked...and encourage them to come to our website to learn more. After the current ordering period ends, a new one will be started after the holidays and advertised accordingly on the store area of the site.
Thursday, November 8, 2007 - 8:39pm
Tonight Faith and Hailey were so cute! They were dancing around in their matching monkey pj's and laughing up a storm. I sat there thinking that this is how it is supposed to be! This is exactly how I pictured having kids would be like. The next thought that entered my mind is that in the next couple of hours, when Hailey is fast asleep, Brian and I will sneak into her room and give her chemotherapy through her feeding tube. It gives us knots in our stomach because we really don't know if it will help her. The only thing we know for sure is that she will probably get sick from it. One night down, four to go...
On a brighter note, the planning continues for our Shop for a Cure fundraiser. I wanted to extend a special thanks to my partners-in-crime, Lisa Comber and Susan Weis. They are both doing an amazing job!! We have 28 vendors signed up and are having a bake sale. If anyone is interested in helping us out at the event or donating baked goods, contact Lisa Comber for details.
Phone: 920-831-6856 or 920-205-6884
Thursday, November 1, 2007 - 6:24pm
We are happy to report that for the first time since Hailey got her feeding tube in August, she SAT DOWN in the bath tub tonight and played contently the entire time. No screaming, no crying, no refusal to sit in the water...she was just like she used to be in the bath. She even let Faith come in with her and they sat and played together the entire time. Shannon and I are so happy right now it is beyond words. We feel like we just won the lottery. I guess it doesn't take much these days...even the little things have become unforgettable.
Wednesday, October 31, 2007 - 9:13am
Happy Halloween! Faith will be dressing up and trick or treating as "Stephanie" from Lazy Town. Hailey keeps saying she does not want to dress up. She is not into it at all. She really hates getting dressed and undressed in general, which leads to the reason why I am doing this journal entry...
Many times we are writing these entries to communicate with the people who are following our story and of course to capture the details of our situation for our own purposes...to look back on some day. This entry is an example of the latter. We wanted to document something we battle with regularly hoping that when looking back on it a few years from now we can laugh and be thankful it is long behind us.
95% of the time Hailey is a happy, easy going little girl. She truly is a joy to be around. But she continues to battle us EVERY SINGLE DAY on the routine things in life. Getting her dressed, brushing her teeth, changing her diaper, brushing her hair, getting her to sleep past 4:00 a.m., and taking a bath always involves an all out battle...screaming, crying, kicking, and of course vomiting at times. We love the vomiting. Doing these routine activities are by far the worst and most stressful times in our house. It has become pretty obvious to us now that all this is mostly behavioral...2 year old defiance and naughtiness, something we need to be more firm with like we did with Faith and like any good parenting book or seminar would tell you to do. The thing we have struggled with to this point, however, is the difficulty in sorting through what is typical naughty 2 year old behavior, and what is related to the tumor or everything she has been through over the last several months. So, admittedly, we have probably not been as firm with her as we should be. Even with a firmer approach, we would still try not to make her do things she does not want to do. It's just not worth it and she is tortured enough on a regular basis by all the medical procedures she goes through. But there is no getting around taking a bath, getting dressed, getting a diaper changed, or brushing teeth. Those are all pretty important things. And the sleep thing...yikes! Neither Shannon nor I were built to be awake at 4:00 a.m. for the day. I know some people would probably be fine with that, but it is KILLING us.
So we are in a phase right now that is making it difficult NOT to wish for time to pass and her to get older and grow out of this (with some appropriate encouragement from us of course). But we hate thinking that way because time already goes too fast and we know someday we will miss when Hailey and Faith were this age...like when they are teenagers and too cool to hang out with Mom and Dad for example. So for now we battle on. We need to get a little firmer and more consistent with Hailey, find a little more internal toughness in general, and when all else fails...revert to a glass of wine or two to numb the pain! :) In the meantime, we pray for patience and wisdom about the most effective way to handle these moments, keeping the best short and long term interests of all in mind.
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